As I coach many men about dating and relationships in their quest to find the right woman, I thought I would divulge a few things to help my female clients learn what men really want. Its been said before but it’s worth repeating that men are the simpler of the two sexes. There are certain things that will make any man take notice of a woman and want to get to know her better. Here are the top three: 1) A Man Wants a Woman who is Happy, Playful, and Fun. Men like to be active and play. No secret here. Men bond by doing shared activities and experience connection with others through action. Most women, however, experience connection through talking. Unfortunately, you cannot talk your way into a man’s heart. It will never be your wonderful command of the English language that will make him attracted to you. It will be the experiences you create with him. For example, don’t talk about your problems at work or issues with your family in the early stages of dating. Down the road, there will be time for more serious discussions. In the beginning, when a man has fun and feels that spark for you he will want to spend more time getting to know you. 2) A Man Wants Chemistry (Attraction and Passion) Chemistry is the one “intangible” we cannot control in the matchmaking business. Men aren’t as scared of relationships as most women think. However, they are scared of being in a relationship with a woman where there is no passion or attraction. Yes, men are visual creatures and the chemistry either is there or it isn’t. 3) A Man Wants a Woman who Inspires and Respects Him– When a man loves a woman, he wants to be a better man for her and it gives purpose to all his hard work. Men still want to go out and slay the dragon to win a woman’s respect, love, and admiration at the end of the day. A woman who has the maturity to not blame or criticize a man will be attractive to him. How a woman handles her emotions is one of the most important things a man looks for when he’s deciding if he should date her exclusively. High drama with emotions out of control is a red flag for all men. A woman who can present her feelings in a calm non-dramatic way will go a long way toward convincing a man that she could potentially be a long-term partner for him.
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Tuesday, October 7th, 2014How to Marry a Millionaire the Right Way
Tuesday, October 7th, 2014Disclaimer: A man is not a retirement package. Money can be lost just as easily as it can be earned, and half of all marriages end in divorce over finances. Knowing how to capture a millionaires attention is certainly a valuable tool to possess. If all goes well, marrying a millionaire can lead you to financial freedom, private schools for kids, nannies, vacations, luxury cars, and a safe community to live in together. Are you wondering if there is a magic formula to walking down the aisle with the single millionaire of your choice? There is, and if you follow the following three steps below, he can be yours! Find your millionaire by promoting your youth and beauty. Knowing how to marry a millionaire will be a lot easier if you are youthful and attractive. Women should make the most of their beauty while they are still young to attract single rich men. It may not seem fair, but dating wealthy men is much simpler for women in their twenties and early thirties. In these years, women have a lot of sex appeal to affluent single men from the twenties through sixties. If you are young, learning how to marry a millionaire could be as easy as contacting a Millionaire matchmaker and asking for consideration in the agency’s database of men. There are sure to be plenty of upscale single men who will naturally find you sexy, but learning how to dress the part is crucial. To maximize your beauty, you should show off some skin in form-fitting clothing without overdoing it. As all the fashion magazines suggest, if you wear a super-short mini skirt, you shouldn’t reveal too much cleavage. If you wear bright red lipstick, you should not have dramatic black eyeliner. In other words, pick one feature to play up and one body part to draw attention to. The idea is to keep it classy with hints of sexuality. If you are more mature, do not despair. Many wealthy men dating in both the cities and suburbs are attracted to women of all ages who maintain their good looks and have a pleasant personality. If you dress sexy but age appropriate and have a warm easy-going personality, you’ll be a desirable option for more than enough single rich men. No matter what your age, if you have a young-at-heart care-free attitude, single millionaires will find you attractive. Capture your millionaire by respecting his time and having great times together One thing is for sure: Single rich men lead very busy lives. They have companies to run, business trips to attend, and large networks of friends, contacts, and colleagues to stay in touch with. In addition, they have the time and means to take up hobbies, be involved in charities, travel for pleasure, and maintain multiple homes around the globe. With a busy professional and social calendar, the last thing they want is to waste time with a woman that doesn’t respect their time. With millionaire dating, it needs to be more about him—not you. No, you don’t want to bend over backwards to accommodate his schedule if it is going to hurt you, but you do want to show him that you value his time and can be flexible with yours. Just as importantly, make sure the time you spend together is generally fun, lighthearted, and drama-free. If you become experienced in dating wealthy men, you will see that they have enough stress in their lives already. Make your relationship a safe haven that will protect him from additional stresses and you’ll be that much closer in your quest to discovering how to marry a millionaire. Keep your millionaire by adding irreplaceable value to his life Contrary to popular belief, single rich men are not afraid to commit. They are afraid of commitment to the wrong woman! If you want a man to make the ultimate commitment by taking your hand in marriage, you must make him feel you are better than any other female option he has. In a nutshell, figuring out how to marry a millionaire is figuring out how to be irreplaceable. Some quick tips: Always be happy even if you are not. Smile. Be sexier than anyone else he might date. Flirt with him. Hold hands and touch. Be romantic. Make him feel like a king. With beauty, great times, and irreplaceable value, you’ll be on your way to marrying a millionaire and living happily ever after. Best Regards, Craig Donaldson President Model Quality Introductions www.ModelQualityIntroductions.com president@modelqualityintroductions.com 310.860.9300
Top Turnoffs for Women
Tuesday, October 7th, 2014Just as we men have certain things that make us run for the hills on a date, women also have particular turnoffs. Knowing what turn most women off will help you avoid these mistakes in your dating journey. 1) Too much Self-Admiration– While women often tell me they want a man who is confident, they do not want a man who spends the evening glorifying himself. In an effort to impress, too many men are guilty of boasting about their latest achievement or money making venture. She will be much more impressed if you are genuine, make her laugh, and talk about other interests you have outside of work. 2) Trying to “Fix” rather than listening– Men need to learn that succeeding in a relationship is much easier than they realize. As men, we want to always provide solutions to problems. However, women are emotional beings and often just want to be heard. It takes practice, but if you learn to truly listen to your lady and provide emotional support and empathy for whatever it is she is talking about, you will be on your way to winning her heart. 3) Talking about the Ex-Wife or Ex-Girlfriend– Women want to know that you are interested in them and emotionally ready for a new relationship. They don’t want to feel that they are competing with your ex or that you have unresolved emotions there. So, if you are still angry at an ex-wife, or a cheating ex-girlfriend, you can almost guarantee that by bringing it up in any way there will be no second date.
Top Dating Services: Women Shouldn’t Pay
Tuesday, October 7th, 2014As a discerning single gentleman, you may have considered membership with several professional dating services. At Model Quality Introductions, the nation’s top dating service, we want to let you in on a little secret: Women should not pay. We aren’t just referring to the tab on your first dinner date, but we are taking the strong stance that women should never pay for membership at top dating services. To put it simply, if dating agencies charge women, they attract a clientele of older, less attractive, heavier-set women who come with a lot of baggage. Often, these women are extremely corporate ladies who’ve had successful careers and failed relationships. At this stage, men are not seeing them out in public. Despite the fact that these women do not appeal to men who see a Millionaire Matchmaker, they themselves are very fussy. They believe they have the right to be selective not only because they are paying a dating service but because they have accomplished so much professionally. Here at Model Quality Introductions, we absolutely do not take on this type of client, most men would date 8’s, 9’s and 10’s that do not pay, than 4’s, 5’s and 6’s that will. On the other hand, beautiful model type single women get asked out a dozen times a day. There’s no way a gorgeous single model type woman is going to spend hundreds or thousands of dollars to join even the top dating services to meet any guy. This is why none of our competitors can offer beautiful women like we can. To put it simply, when dating agencies charge women for membership, they just can’t attract quality women. How many 8’s, 9’s, and 10’s, ages 25-45 are going to spend their entire savings to date single gentleman. None! At Model Quality Introductions, we are the only male-owned matchmaking agency in the nation that gets it. For twenty years, we’ve recruited breathtaking women and added them to our registry for free. If you are a discerning gentleman, do not pay to join any dating agencies that charge women. Make an investment into Model Quality Introductions and meet the women who are worth your hard earned money and time. The difference is extraordinary!
The Three Best Upscale Dating Ideas
Tuesday, October 7th, 2014Let’s be honest: All dates are not created equal! Some are far better than others—not only because of who you are with, but because of what you are doing when you are with them. Some single rich men go above and beyond in planning dates. They do their research, take care of all the details, and bring a whole new meaning to upscale dating. Others just make a reservation at their go-to neighborhood restaurant. If you want to date beautiful women, don’t even think about the latter. Whether you meet a beautiful woman through a Millionaire matchmaker or in line at the supermarket, you’ve got to put in effort when planning a great date just to compete with all the other affluent single men chasing her. In order to make the best first impressions, consider the three best upscale dating ideas: Upscale Dating Idea # 1: Dinner You can’t go wrong with fine dining at a trendy restaurant that has a good reputation and rating. Look for a spot with a romantic view–whether of the water or of a city skyline. Choose a restaurant that is in close proximity to many other great date spots where you could go afterward for dessert or a drink. You’ll want to be in the “right” part of town. For example, downtown spots are usually considered hipper and trendier among New Yorkers. (But if your date lives uptown and she prefers somewhere convenient, choose the best restaurant for upscale dating in her neighborhood.) The ambiance is very important-the place should be quiet enough for conversation over dinner and drinks-but the restaurant must have excellent food too! Pick one that is dimly let over bright and obnoxious. Upscale Dating Idea # 2: Events When you are looking to impress a woman with more than just a meal, know the secret other upscale single men know: Unique events are always the way to go. If you really want to take her on some VIP dates, get admission to exclusive events and parties that attract a high-profile affluent singles and celebrity clientele. Make arrangements so you can cut the line and get one of the best tables in the house. If you aren’t into “the scene” you can try a cultural event like a gallery opening, Broadway play, or concert. If all else fails, you can always go to the Opera. Upscale Dating Idea # 3: Excursions If you want to do something really special and non-traditional that will set you apart from other affluent single men, you can plan an excursion type-date. Such dates are exciting, facilitate chemistry, and always make for a good story; however, they might not make the best first dates if you don’t know the woman well enough. (This is especially true if you are planning an activity that can give her a bit of performance anxiety, involves heights, or deserted areas!) Some ideas for excursions include taking her to an amusement park, on a yacht or cruise, in a jet, or up on a hot air balloon. You should definitely prepare some delicious snacks and meals, as it may be an all-day affair. You can always have a picnic too—with a little wine, cheese, and a comfy blanket! Show her a hidden romantic gem, and sparks will be flying.
The Wish List- Helpful or Hinderance?
Tuesday, October 7th, 2014Today I want to talk about “The List”. Most single men and women have one, and it can be pretty elaborate. The question is does your list identify whats really important to you in a life partner, or does your list describe someone who doesn’t exist in reality? Knowing what you want is certainly helpful in narrowing down the pool of people you want to meet. Making a list also helps you determine your “must haves” and “nice to haves”. Sometimes, however, the list can be more of an obstacle than a useful screening tool. Often, I hear requirements that are so unrealistic that I don’t know if I should laugh out loud or cry because that client is destined to be single. For example, women are often looking for men who are highly successful and ambitious, yet they don’t want them to spend the time it takes to have that super successful life. Women also fantasize about a strong man who will also love to talk about feelings and go shopping with them. And then there are men who want the supermodel type woman, of which we have plenty, but she must look flawless without makeup, have an Ivy League degree or two, and not be high maintenance. Now, I’m not saying all of these things are mutually exclusive but you must be realistic. Real people aren’t perfect. Obviously there must be chemistry. It is either there or it isn’t. You cannot manufacture it. Chemistry and attraction are critical. Once those are met, we need to look at other things. Do you share common life goals and have similar ideas about family? Do you share an active lifestyle or desire to travel? How is their communication style? Make sure that your list” encompasses important values and attributes that are more than skin deep. As a client of MQI, you will be introduced to the most beautiful single women in the nation. They are all hand-picked and looking to meet commitment minded men. Our matchmakers will review with you what is important on the inside as well as the outside of the women we introduce you to. We help you flesh out what has been working for you and where we can make suggestions that will help you start a great relationship sooner. So, whether you are working with us now or plan on in the near future, take a closer look at your list.
Secret Tips to Exclusive Dating With Affluent Single Men
Tuesday, October 7th, 2014In a day and age with more dating options than ever, getting a man to commit to a serious, monogamous, long-term relationship can be quite the challenge. Most women have no problem attracting men, but finding those affluent single men who’ll stick around for the happily-ever-after is not as easy as one might think. Can you relate? If you understand and apply the following three secret tips to exclusive dating with affluent single men, you may just change your luck in the romance department! Identify the signs of affluent single men who are ready for Exclusive dating They are certain types of upscale single men who might be fun for casual dating but do not make ideal candidates for a serious relationship. If exclusive dating is what you truly desire, you’ll have to avoid involvement with men who are emotionally unavailable, still have relationships with exes, and have issues with addictions or commitment. Other single men who aren’t ready for exclusive relationships may include those who are not settled in terms of their careers or their finances. Alternately, you might meet the single executive who is too preoccupied with work. Although you may be attracted to many things about the men that fall into these categories, do not date them with the hope that they will change. It will be a waste of your time when you find out that they won’t. Ultimately, you will learn that it is best to date single rich men who contact an agency like Model Quality Introductions because they are at the stage in life when they are ready to settle down. Through us, you will meet men who are generous with their time, money, and emotions. Maintain a little bit of mystery It is not wise to play hard to get especially with single rich men who are likely to date beautiful women all the time and have many options to choose from. However, it is a good idea to actually be a little hard to get, to appeal to such upscale single men as they like a challenge. To be a challenge you can’t give up everything too soon. Whether you share stories about your past relationships or disclose that your personal mission is to marry a millionaire, you will be giving him too much information. You should not tell a man everything about yourself upfront, because men like mysterious women. It is best to leave some things to his imagination, especially when it comes to intimacy. There is something to be said for making a man wait. If you give him something to look forward to, and appeal to him on an emotional level, he will be more likely to consider you for long-term exclusive dating. Give affluent single men incentive to commit to A lot of women make the mistake of initiating “the talk” when they decide they want exclusive dating with a single millionaire they are dating. Unfortunately, you can’t verbally convince a man that he should commit to you, let alone a millionaire who can have who he wants. If you make him feel pressured, commitment will be the last thing on his mind. When you want a man all to yourself, it is best to follow the old adage that says actions speak louder than words. Your goal is to show him why he should commit by making him see that you are an amazing woman who adds value to his life. This is especially important when it comes to dating wealthy men who have tons of options in their love lives. You have to show a man that you have a life outside him-which may even include friendships with other men-to give him an incentive to fight for you. It doesn’t hurt to give him a visual reminder every now and then by getting all dressed up when you go out so that you’ll receive admiring glances from other men. This will remind him that there other wealthy singles who’d love to date a woman like you. By being a great girlfriend who understands him, listens to him, and cares for him unconditionally, he’ll see that you add great value to his life. If you can make a man feel truly supported and loved, he’ll be thrilled to commit. He might even think that the idea was his in the first place! Best Regards, Craig Donaldson President Model Quality Introductions www.ModelQualityIntroductions.com president@modelqualityintroductions.com 310.860.9300
One Thing Guaranteed to Turn Her On
Tuesday, October 7th, 2014Have you ever wondered why some men consistently attract beautiful women? It isn’t your cologne, convertible sports car, or even your muscular build that that will make her want to get closer. The truth is that women are attracted to certain personality traits and they flock to men who possess them. One of the best effects you can have on a woman is to get her laughing. Yes, having a sense of humor and the ability to make her laugh is among the most appealing qualities any man can have. If you are a guy that doesn’t naturally have a great sense of humor, you may be at a big disadvantage. However, this is a communication skill that you can develop. The fact is that most men are focused on being polite when they date. They censor themselves excessively and end up being boring in conversation and women see them as lacking an edge. To make a woman laugh, be a little more spontaneous. Look at whatever situation you are in from a fresh perspective and you’ll rapidly turn out to be the funny and creative individual that turns her on. Interesting enough, as you do this you will relax more and feel more confident. Ultimately, humor as a turn on for women is much more than a skill. It is an attitude. When you can make a woman laugh hardily, she sees you as having an attitude of confidence and optimism. And for a woman, that is very sexy.
Model Dating: Professional Matchmaker’s Advice on Intimacy
Tuesday, October 7th, 2014Couple’s counselors everywhere continuously state that couples fight most about intimacy and money. Model-type women use a Millionaire Matchmaker to meet eligible men that they can rest assured will be an upscale pre-vetted man. However, meeting an affluent single man who is also a great intimate partner could feel a bit more like rolling the dice. If you use professional dating services, the women you meet will know you are successful in life, so focus on showing them that you’ll click in the bedroom. Want to date models and set the foundation for a great long term relationship? Let us show the lady that you are the complete package. Model Dating Tip #1: Be aware of the “rules”. Some say rules are meant to be broken, but if you are looking to date a model or any beautiful woman, keep the “rules” in mind. To begin with, if you want a serious relationship, do not get intimate on the first date. Although there are exceptions to any rule, sleeping together on the first date will not take you to the altar. It is generally advised that you don’t sleep together before the fifth date minimum. Many men who date models think it is acceptable to get intimate after three dates, but beautiful women make men they are seriously interested in wait longer. They want intimacy to be special with a guy really like. Many beautiful women want to wait until a man has made an emotional investment. This can take five dates or five months, it all depends on the woman, and the nature of the relationship. The number one rule you should follow when dating a model is to wait until the woman is comfortable. If you don’t pressure a woman, she will assume that you care about her, respect her, and see her as part of your future. If you wait too long, you run the risk of being placed in “friend zone”. Model Dating Tip #2: Understand what women want. When it comes to intimacy, the worst thing you can do is be pushy and make advances when a woman is uninterested. Read her body language and see if it is safe to make a move by testing the waters. See how affectionate she is in public. If she seems uncomfortable or unreceptive, slow down. When in doubt, ask her. Mirror her body language. Kiss her the way that she kisses you. Don’t be too aggressive, and if she seems to like whatever you are doing, do it more. If she doesn’t, stop. Model Dating Tip # 3: Prepare for the big night. When the time is finally right, you’ll want to do everything you can to make it special. Have a bottle of champagne chilled. Light candles. Use a hot tub if available. If you want to date a model, your goal is to make the entire experience her most pleasurable. As Men’s Health suggests in “How to Be a Good Lover”: “A woman wants reassurance that the sexual experience you just shared was important to you. Hold her close, kiss her, and try some light facial massage as you gaze into her eyes.” Go get ‘em, Tiger! Best Regards, Craig Donaldson President Model Quality Introductions www.ModelQualityIntroductions.com president@modelqualityintroductions.com 310.860.9300
Millionaire Dating: Use Your Masculine Energy to Win Over a Woman
Tuesday, October 7th, 2014First impressions are everything for a man interested in exclusive dating, but as many affluent singlemenknow, you don’t win a woman over on the first date alone. Beautiful women who are used to dating millionaires have been wined and dined. As any Millionaire matchmaker would tell you, you’ll have to do more than just show her a good time if you want to stand out from all the other single rich men chasing her, don’t make the mistake of relaxing your efforts after a great first date. Just because she likes you, doesn’t mean you’ve won her over. If you really want to grab her heart, you have to use your masculine energy to make her feel like a woman—ideally the only woman you have eyes for! Keep in mind a woman who is interested in marrying a millionaire, wants to date successful masculine alpha males who show that they can protect her. To date single models, use your masculine energy to lead, provide, and cherish her feelings. Follow these tips by our upscale matchmaker: Millionaire Dating Tip #1: Ask her out on dates in advance. When a woman is trying to decide if a guy is worthy of exclusive dating, she is watching his every move. Women naturally tend to read into behaviors and relationship dynamics more than men; one thing that is always important to them is whether a man makes them feel special. If a date is planned at the last minute regardless if it is the best high end datingexperience a woman can imagine the guy gets a strike in her mind. She thinks that if a guy wants to be with her, he will ask her out in advance to ensure the date. It doesn’t matter if he is a busy single executive or millionaire datingwith a ton of time on his hands, if he can’t take the lead and ask her out ahead of time, a woman loses respect. It shows a disregard toward her feelings if you make last minute plans that require little effort. She will doubt how serious you are about her and may even label you as a player. Be smart, and be a man with a plan! Millionaire Dating Tip #2: Lead the relationship with good communication. If you are calling, emailing, and texting a woman regularly, it becomes apparent to her that she is a priority to you. A woman knows that if a “real man” is interested, he will make that clear to her. She knows that there are many men who prefer the convenience of texting, but that if a man has strong feelings, he’ll want to hear a woman’s voice. Show her that you look forward to contact with her. Find every opportunity to respond to her–no matter how busy you may be. If you want exclusive dating, never fail to acknowledge holidays, because they are important to women. If it is a major holiday, and you aren’t with her, you should be calling and sending cards and gifts. Provide her with a sense of security about the relationship by showing that you care. Millionaire Dating Tip #3: Show her that you want more than sex. If you’ve been out for a lot of dinner and drinks, switch it up and take her out for lunch in the middle of the day. A woman doesn’t want to feel like the guy she is dating only wants to see her when it is dark out. If you are considering her for exclusive dating, spend time getting to know her in a different context Its silly oversight, but a lot of single rich men don’t think the simple pleasures provide a path to a woman’s heart. They think it is all about upscale dating. It’s NOT! Walk with her in the park, hold her hand in the movie theater, and let her realize how much she likes you when you are just doing simple things. Also, when you compliment her, don’t comment on her body. You can compliment her appearance, but make sure you also tell her you admire her intelligence or enjoy her sense of humor. Millionaire Dating Tip #4: Make her feel special when you introduce her to your friends. Nearly all men want their friends to approve of the girl that they are dating, but some make the mistake of making the introduction too soon. If you bring a woman to meet your crew on a first or second date, she won’t feel special. She’ll get the idea that you always date beautiful women and like to show them off to your friends right away. If you wait until she feels confident that you are considering her for the long term, she’ll feel like you want to integrate her into your life. If it becomes clear that you have been talking positively about her to your friends, she will feel flattered. A successful introduction to your friends will make a woman feel you are on the path toward exclusive dating and more. Millionaire Dating Tip # 5: Go after what you want A masculine man is aggressive and laser focused on his goal. As a single executive looking for millionaire matchmaking, you know how to get what you want in the workplace. Now, go for the girl! Don’t give her the idea that you don’t want something serious by rushing into sex too soon. But if exclusive datingis what you are after, you will want to sleep with her as soon as she is comfortable. When the time is right, you must initiate sex. Beautiful women know that all guys want to have sex with a woman they are attracted to. If you don’t initiate, she will think you are just platonically interested. You are the man. Make your move!
