This post is a funny tale of what it’s like to be the president of the largest upscale matchmaking service for men. In order to find the most beautiful women around the country for my male clients, I often need to travel to screen large groups of women that have been recruited by my staff or have applied for membership. This weekend I flew to my Arizona office to meet with new clients, attend the Barrett Jackson auto auction, and interview a large group of women. I have been screening women for my Phoenix and Scottsdale gentlemen at a well-known, large hotel in the greater Scottsdale area. Month after month I have gone into their posh lobby meeting area to meet 10-15 beautiful women at a time. I found the hotel to be a more comfortable setting for everyone, as opposed to meeting in our matchmaking office. The hotel was easy for women to find, had a large beautiful seating area, and it was comfortable for all involved. As always, I interviewed the women in a group setting to see which ones would then be scheduled for matchmaking meetings. As I finished up my meeting this weekend and answered all the women’s questions, I was approached by the general manager of the hotel. He politely said he needed to speak with me. He started off saying that he had seen me here month after month meeting with the most attractive women he had ever seen. He said that his curiosity had gotten to him and he had to know what it was I did for a living. After I explained to him all about Model Quality Introductions, he sheepishly said that he would have to ask me to move my meetings elsewhere because it was causing too much of a stir among all the businessmen and their wives in the hotel. How funny!
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Interviewing Beautiful Women Isn’t Easy
Tuesday, October 7th, 2014How to Keep The Relationship Exciting
Tuesday, October 7th, 2014Having a successful relationship doesn’t happen automatically, even if you meet the person who is your perfect match. We all have past experiences and future expectations. Women don’t expect that each date will be more elaborate than the prior one until you are whisking them away to a private island. Women consistently express that it is the little things that keep them attracted and excited to see a man. They appreciate the man who opens their car door, remembers special occasions, and surprises them with flowers when they don’t expect it. Relationships tend to start to suffer when we take our women for granted. If after a few months, you think your relationship is on cruise control, it is time to remind her how special she is to you and treat her like the catch she is. Plan a special date. Take a little getaway, do something spontaneous like leaving a little note. All of these things will help to keep the butterflies and excitement there. It’s also important to make time to learn a bit about her interests. For example if she likes dancing and you are the world’s worst dancer, she will still adore you for making the effort. Go a little out of your comfort zone and you will reap the rewards.
How To Date Beautiful Women: Using Your Strengths
Tuesday, October 7th, 2014Without a doubt, many men believe having a beautiful woman is the ultimate status symbol. The lady on your arm speaks volumes about you. Whether your goal is to tie the knot or simply dating beautiful women, your strategy should be the same. You’ll have to stand apart from the competition. Hundreds of single rich men are vying for the attention of the very same 5 % of beautiful women you wish to attract. Luckily, you don’t have to be a GQ model to be dating models or a millionaire to make a woman like you. Sure, these things help, but so does maintaining a polished appearance, being a great date, and sharing a wonderful evening. If you are serious about your quest to date beautiful women, consider the following. Executive dating appearance: Although women are typically more forgiving when it comes to the appearance of their partner than men are, they prefer a man who is clean cut with an attractive image. The key to creating your image is to minimize your flaws. For example, if you don’t like your nose but have an awesome smile, you can get your teeth whitened to deflect the attention from your nose. A polished appearance will get you noticed. If everyone is wearing sweaters, wear a suit. If everyone is wearing a suit, wear a tux. Get noticed. Stand out for all the right reasons. Be sure you shave regularly, take care for your skin, manicure your nails, and style you hair in a flattering way. Choose clothing made of quality material that is in style and fashionable. Dress like single executives who command respect and power would. You don’t have to be a slave to fashion, but you do have to stay current with your look if you want to date beautiful women. Be confident in your own skin, and always act like a gentleman. Having proper manners and following conventional dating etiquette makes you interesting and chivalrous to single models. Be a great date: To date model type women, take the lead. Women want a guy who will call, not text, to ask them out on a proper date. They appreciate a man with a plan who they are excited to clear their social calendar for. Thus, you should take time to put together a thoughtful and unique date in advance, going out of your way to make sure the time spent together is special. If you are going to date beautiful women, choose a venue that has a nice, romantic ambiance, as these are the type of places other upscale single men take her to. The restaurant should be convenient for your date to travel to. Consider arranging a driver to come pick her up at her home. You should ask her favorite foods and select a restaurant with a good reputation and rating. Make sure that you insist on the best table available. These are non-negotiables for men who want to date beautiful women. Beautiful single women are used to dating wealthy men who go the extra mile to make them feel comfortable and show them extraordinary experiences. They are used to being wined and dined in good places and chauffeured around town by single millionaires. It is crucial that you put in that type of effort if you want to see a woman again. Paying attention to detail, listening to what she has to say, and giving genuine compliments goes a very long way. Paint a picture of your wonderful lifestyle: A picture is worth a thousand words, and you are going to have to paint one if you want to date beautiful women. The goal is to show and not tell. It wouldn’t hurt to mention a few things that single rich men typically do when they are trying to impress a woman in conversation. A reference to your summer home, car collection, or boat, as well as the dropping of a name or two could work in your favor. Just don’t come across as a braggart. The idea is to show women that you have a lot to offer. If you give them a glimpse of the good life, they’ll be more likely to perceive you as a man who is worth investing time in. If you appeal to their tastes, you’ll have an edge in attracting their attention for the long- term. Best Regards, Craig Donaldson President Model Quality Introductions www.ModelQualityIntroductions.com president@modelqualityintroductions.com 310.860.9300
How To Date a Single Millionaire: What Women Should Wear
Tuesday, October 7th, 2014If you have your heart set on dating wealthy men, know that finding a good guy who also happens to be a millionaire is not as difficult as you think understand the mindset of single millionaires. While single millionaires are different in many ways, they all have one thing in common. Besides the riches they’ve made; they like to date beautiful women. If they tell you they don’t, they are lying! Sure, they are looking for other qualities as well, but most upscale single men really do have an interest in dating models or women who look like one. Don’t worry, you don’t have to be a supermodel to attract a single millionaire, but you will to have a follow a few rules to catch his eye. Before you run out to buy a whole new wardrobe of clothes and accessories, consider that one of the best things you can wear is a smile! A warm, genuine smile is a sign of happiness, health, and wellness; it is impossible for any man to resist! Rule # 1: A single millionaire likes feminine women. Single rich men are often described as alpha males, as they have power and respect in their circles. They often have busy agendas packed with meetings, business trips, social engagements, and fun activities. They are the men who lead full lives, getting things done in the world by being dominant and aggressive leaders. In other words, they epitomize the typical definition of “manly”. In turn, a single millionaire will like women who act like ladies and are not too masculine in nature. Since men are such visual creatures, portraying the image of a beautiful feminine woman starts with clothing. After all, it is hard to appear masculine in a beautiful long flowing skirt. To attract upscale single men, you should wear feminine clothing such as skirts and dresses made of materials like lace or silk. You can wear cardigans in soft pastels or bold girly colors such as pinks, reds, and purples too. Don’t be afraid of embracing frilly and romantic fashions. In order to have a feminine appearance, you must definitely develop an understanding of which colors go together and which clash with your appearance. Feminine women have an innate talent for choosing beautiful clothing. Rule # 2: A single millionaire likes a sexy woman. To increase your chances of capturing the attention of affluent single men, you’ve got to get in touch with your sexy side. Every woman has one, whether she wears clothing that just hints at sexuality or emulates the ultimate sex kitten! Looking sexy is not necessarily about wearing skin tight clothing or having overflowing cleavage, but about being confident in whatever you wear. However, you should never underestimate the power of skinny jeans or a push-up bra. Wear them regularly to turn the heads of wealthy singles. Speaking of heads, if yours doesn’t house long, thick, locks, consider getting hair extensions, because single rich men love long hair. Make sure your clothes are flattering for your body type and that you aren’t breaking any obvious fashion no-nos. If your sleeves are too long or your waist is not showing, you should definitely get yourself to a tailor and find a cool belt that will highlight your waist. You want pieces that are form-fitting and show off your figure. (Bonus points in the sexy department if you have an hour glass shape!) If you have great legs, wear a mini skirt; if you have amazingly sculpted shoulders, wear a halter top. The key to being sexy is to maximize your assets and minimize your flaws so that you always feel sexy. When you feel sexy, you look sexy. When you look sexy, upscale single men will notice. Best Regards, Craig Donaldson President Model Quality Introductions www.ModelQualityIntroductions.com president@modelqualityintroductions.com 310.860.9300
For Selective Singles, How Do You Know If You’ve Found “The One”?
Tuesday, October 7th, 2014Whether you are currently working with an exclusive dating agency or going about your search alone, how do you really know if the relationship will go the distance? You may find that you have great chemistry, you completely enjoy being together, and your lives seem to blend well. However, there are some things that studies show greatly increases the chances for a long term union. 1) Life Goals– You want the same things in life. You envision a future that is similar. You can support each other’s vocational goals. 2) Values– Your values match. Values have to do with what you consider to be important and unimportant. Do you value work, financial independence, family, charity, a healthy lifestyle, having fun, honesty, and a relationship? 3) Communication– You are able to communicate your thoughts to each other and both of you can listen without judging. You are also able to resolve conflict. This is very important. 4) Beliefs– This involves your worldviews and will directly affect other areas of your lives. Religion and politics are two big ones. Having the same beliefs helps you to both be on the same team and it gives you things to talk about and pursue together. 5) Lifestyle Preferences– These are personal likes and dislikes. Do you prefer to spend a lot of time alone or with other people? Do you like to go to bed early or stay up late? Do you like to travel or are you a homebody? These are just a few of the preferences that need to be addressed. No two people are exactly alike. Just the differences between being a man and being a woman are enough to deal with at times. There will always be things in someone that we decide to overlook. However, these shouldn’t be big things that will cause the relationship to be highly conflictual or things that will make you want to change your partner.
Executive Dating: Differences between Men and Women
Tuesday, October 7th, 2014In the twenty-first century, more women than ever are facing the challenge of balancing their careers and their relationships. If you are the typical modern day woman, you want it all—the high-powered career, be married to a high caliber man, and have kids. Like many other professional singles, you have probably gotten the message that you should get you career established first and then find love. As a result, women are pursuing higher educations and placing their focus on work, rather than marriage. Initially, many executive women are more concerned with making a million dollars than learning how to love a millionaire. As women mature, they start to realize that despite their success, they aren’t happy without love. They find themselves in the office of an upscale dating service for single professionals. They join an agency that specializes in Executive matchmaking to meet single executives like themselves. They are painfully reminded of what Gloria Steinem famously said “We are becoming the very men we wanted to marry”. While the line between the sexes of professional singles becomes increasingly similar between men and women, there are considerable differences that play out in the executive dating game. To forge a successful relationship with a single executive, it is important to realize the following diverse characteristics between upscale single men and women. Executive Dating Difference # 1: Falling in love As a woman, you fall in love with what is between his ears, while men fall in love with what they see with their eyes. Generally, women like a man for his intelligence. If he can show you that he is socially adept, witty, thoughtful, and can make you laugh, he has a good shot at winning your heart. It is not that men don’t value these things; they are just far more visual creatures than women are. If you want to date rich men who are smart and professionally accomplished, don’t think you have to be a brainiac. As executive men, they are fine with being the brainy ones and just want to be physically and mentally attracted to you. Your energy should be spent on making yourself look beautiful to capture upscale single men. Executive Dating Difference # 2: Communication Style It’s almost universally true: Women want to talk on the phone between dates and men want to text. Before you start thinking he doesn’t like you very much if he doesn’t want to hear your voice, realize that communication differences in males and females start when they are toddlers! Studies show that infant girls make a greater variety of sounds than baby boys. The left sides of the female’s brains develop faster than their male counterparts, and this is why they have a penchant for verbal communication throughout their lives. So blame it on biology when it comes to executive dating, and add on the fact that male executives are probably on the phone all day. Some affluent singles just find it more convenient and enjoyable to text—don’t hold it against them. Executive Dating Difference # 3: Sexual Preferences When it comes to sexual preferences, men prefer it now and women prefer to wait! While there are exceptions to the rule, for the most part, women want an emotional connection before sex, and men want sex before an emotional connection. This is true for nearly all men, but even more so for single rich men who are used to getting whatever they want whenever they want it. While you should not feel pressured to become intimate before you are ready, know that executive men may become impatient and move on to the next if you don’t at least hint at the promise of intimacy. Many have egos and will take it as personal rejection if you don’t sleep with them on their time line. As a woman, you should not take this personally. Just understand that boys simply will be boys. Best Regards, Craig Donaldson President Model Quality Introductions president@modelqualityintroductions.com www.ModelQualityIntroductions.com 310.860.9300
Exclusive Matchmaking: Better Than Online Dating
Tuesday, October 7th, 2014Despite all the modern-day technologies that have created unique ways for singles to meet their match, many upscale single men state they’d rather meet someone the old-fashioned way than online. However, locking eyes with a soul mate from across the grocery store is just not happening for most upscale singles, as evidenced by the forty million who have tried online single dating sites. Executive singles that have experienced online dating actually become clients of the booming exclusive matchmaking industry, and find far better results for love. If you are looking for quality introductions, trust in an upscale matchmaking agency to find your match. Exclusive Matchmaking: The Human Element: Human beings are far better at making quality decisions than a computer. Some believe that the best matches come from friends, but this will only work for you if your friends date at the same level you do. Most friends just match their executive single friends with anyone who is single in their general age range. This creates a lot of non-successful first dates with women whom you are not attracted to. If you seek more than friendship, a millionaire matchmaker is a very efficient way to date beautiful women with much higher success. That’s what millionaire matchmakers do! They get to know their single millionaires’ likes and dislikes on a very personal level. Understand that a millionaire matchmaker isn’t just for millionaires. It’s synonymous with affluent men that earn over 200K and do not want to embarrass themselves with silly and juvenile online exposure. Millionaire matchmakers listen carefully and use the information their clients’ provide as well as their intuition and understanding of compatibility to introduce them to beautiful single women. Professional matchmaking from an elite dating service makes all the difference for the discerning gentleman who would like to expedite his success. Exclusive Matchmaking: Less Stress and Time Spent Finding Your Match With high-end matchmaking, you will have verification that your potential dates are who they say they are. Using an online dating site instead of a millionaire matchmaker, you will have no one to complete this careful screening. Matchmakers specialize in policing singles and weeding out those who are unappealing to you. With online dating, it is apparent that many singles lie about their background and personal characteristics. It is quite common for women on all sites to use outdated photos that don’t reflect their chronological age, appearance, or weight. Considering the fact that many women downright lie about their age and physical type, using a matchmaker will save you time and minimize stress by ensuring that you meet only those who truly fit your criteria. Otherwise, you will waste time with endless profiles and sending messages to women who aren’t available to begin with. If you are like most of the single rich men who use exclusive matchmaking services, you have far better things to do than sit in front of the computer four hours a day sending out messages to women who no longer check their silly online accounts! You also don’t want to waste your time with women who are more interested in marrying a millionaire for his bank account than for who he is as a person. Exclusive Matchmaking: More Opportunities If you want more opportunities to date beautiful women, then hiring a millionaire matchmaking agency is for you. For upscale single affluent men who want confidentiality, executive matchmaking can provide privacy and opportunities to meet the right women. If you like single model type women, keep in mind that they don’t run home to hide behind a keyboard. They are hardly ever single, and they are never home. In fact, they are like a good pocket listing, they never hit the market! An executive matchmaking service can help find such a pocket listing by providing you with the ability to date beautiful women who would never respond to someone online. For instance, if you’re online dating profile states that you are below a certain height range or higher than a certain age range; many women won’t even consider your profile. Those who might be interested will not respond, because they are overwhelmed by the ridiculous volume of messages from other men. They have nine hundred men writing them every day. With exclusive matchmaking, you will never have to worry about competing for a woman or having your messages overlooked. With an upscale matchmaker, we do the work, you reap the rewards.
Don’t Share How You Feel Too Soon…
Tuesday, October 7th, 2014Love is in the air and Valentine’s Day is just around the corner. As men, we usually have no problems in our business, and focusing on the strategy to get what we want. However, when we start recognizing the need for a great personal relationship, we often go about it all wrong. I want to share one of the 7 deadly sins of dating. That dating sin is sharing how you feel too soon. With 15+ yrs of matchmaking experience and relationship coaching under my belt, “too soon” is defined as before your 4th date. You have to give a woman the chance to really get to know you before you walk the plank. Sure your emotions are like fireworks, but women are slower to the draw. The analogy that men are like “blow torches” and women “more like ovens” holds true for how our respective emotions heat up. Women worry about “what if?” and “is this real?” Men don’t. If you make it to the 4th date, this means that a woman does like you and your admiration will be accepted. After an amazing first date, I took a woman out to dinner for a second date. Everything was perfect. The conversation, chemistry, and flirting were all flawless. At the end of the second date I said, “We have so much in common and amazing chemistry, would you like to see each other exclusively?” She said no, to my surprise. She didn’t know me well enough yet. Months later, we were engaged. Like most men, I read the mutual romance signals right, but was thinking like a man rather than a woman. I almost ruined a great relationship. We all know that attractive women are rare. They get asked out daily, everywhere they go. They have experience, often more than men in terms of dating. They know what to expect and can anticipate your moves in advance. And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running is a guy who starts saying “You know, I really, REALLY like you” after one or two dates. This signals to the woman that you’re just like all the other guys. All of those dates that she never called back, those who fall for her too fast. Control yourself. Be calm, cool, and collected. Leave the date with her hoping that you’ll call. If you revert back to the teenage method of dating…”I really like you, I really feel a connection here”. It’s over. Flirt, but don’t gush. Our skilled matchmakers find out exactly what each woman thought about you, in detail. This after-date feedback is extremely helpful in taking your relationship to the next level. So, lean back and relax. Let us deliver this information to you confidentially so in the end you do get the relationship you want and deserve.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Tuesday, October 7th, 2014Do you take a moment’s pause when you hear people say they have experienced love at first sight? Do you wonder about the men and women who say they “just knew” their now-partners were their soul mates within minutes of meeting them? Do you think it is even possible to experience the sentiments they claim? Or is it more likely that they are projecting long-held fantasies on to someone they just met? In today’s modern day society, it’s easy to see why so many people believe in love at first sight, by taking a glimpse at pop culture and everything from technology to the media. In the world of smart phones, texting, and tweeting, people may very well fool themselves into believing that instant gratification can also apply to matters of the heart. They think: If I can send and receive communication immediately, why can’t I be in love with or love someone immediately? Just watch a few episodes of ABC’s, The Bachelor or Bachelorette to see this notion of instant love in action. Within three to four weeks of meeting the Bachelor or Bachelorette, while competing against twenty-five others for his or her heart, the “contestants” are already falling madly in love and declaring it so to the object of their affection. Shows like these lead some people to believe that they can love someone just by seeing them from across a crowded room. Sorry, we’re not buying it. It’s doubtful that they can know they are meant to be with someone so quickly. Often times, love at first sight is a fantasy people want to believe in. These are the romantic stories people choose to tell themselves, and the world only after their love has had time to grow. People who have learned real lessons about love know that it isn’t about being swept off your feet, quickly winning someone over, or feeling that elusive yet perfect lightning bolt from the very first meeting. They know that the seedlings of love begin when you let someone in the door, and that love only flourishes when you allow that person to come inside and stay awhile. They are aware that it takes time to develop trust, vulnerability, and real intimacy. They know a real love relationship is not just about the easy stuff, like the good times and laughs; it’s about loving someone despite their idiosyncrasies. Additionally, they may know that people often confuse sex and love–that men give love to get sex and women give sex to get love. They know love is not just about great sex, but that it’s also about feeling a sense of peace, comfort and emotional safety with someone. Ultimately, they believe these things take time. To figure out whether or not you believe in love at first sight, you must examine your definition of love. What does it mean to be in love or to love someone in the romantic sense, anyway? It sounds simple, but when people throw the term around so liberally, especially before really knowing someone, they ultimately dilute its meaning. If love actually means to accept someone’s heart and to give that person yours, fully, is it wildly unrealistic to think it could be experienced immediately? Do you know what love really is? Do you think it could occur at first sight? Best Regards, Craig Donaldson President Model Quality Introductions www.ModelQualityIntroductions.com president@modelqualityintroductions.com 310.860.9300
Dating Models: What to Wear As a Gentleman
Tuesday, October 7th, 2014Many men have discovered there are a plethora of benefits to dating models. If you would like to join the ranks of the gentleman who regularly date beautiful women, you’ll need to give your own appearance the critique it deserves. Sure you may think that introducing her to the wonderful world of upscale dating or just being with a millionaire in general is enough, but the truth is, it. Like attracts like, and while you don’t have to be a GQ model, you do have to maintain an attractive image is not, if you are interested in dating models. The importance of good grooming Treating a woman with respect as any gentleman would do will work wonders in helping you along your journey of dating models, First you must master good grooming skills. Understanding the importance of good grooming goes beyond recognizing the value in brushing your teeth after meals and making sure there are no remnants of lunch on your shirt! Brush and floss your teeth at least twice daily and consider getting them professionally whitened if you have stains. Make sure your clothing is neat, and your clothing fits you. You should always maintain a healthy weight. You’ll see a lot of men dating models who are muscular from regular workouts, so exercise is recommended. At the minimum, a neat appearance includes shaving regularly, trimming your hair, and having clean manicured nails. Many men get manicures. If your hands look more like those of a construction worker than the hands of a single executive, you should too. Last but not least, you must smell good! One squirt of cologne is sufficient. Guilty by Gucci for Men, try it! Model Dating: The importance of proper accessories Fashion fades as the seasons change and the work of new designers become trendy in the media. Style is forever! The point is to create a signature style—one that is uniquely you and will help you date beautiful women. The secret is not in buying all the “in” pieces just because they are in vogue, but to buy a few things that will help pull your unique look together. These things, the must-haves for all affluent single men with a penchant for dating models, are also known as accessories. To begin with, you’ll need a good pair of new shoes. Make sure you keep them clean and polished; wear them with a matching belt. Of course, you should never leave home without your wallet—one made of quality leather. Money clips are optional, but if you are dating models, rubber bands around your bills are not! It is equally important that you have a nice looking watch. It is no secret that beautiful women spot single rich men by their watches. Don’t let her pass you by because your accessories aren’t up to par! Dating Models: The best wardrobe choices You can and will date beautiful women if you make smart choices for your wardrobe. The key to creating the type of image that will attract women to you like bees on honey is to choose the clothes that scream confidence! Your clothing should say that you are polished, sophisticated, and comfortable in your own skin. The best wardrobe choices for upscale single men include those that are casual and dressy and should be made with careful consideration of the venue and occasion. For a casual dinner date, you may wear dark jeans and a sports coat or slacks with a long shirt. For fancy upscale dating, you can wear either monogrammed shirts or shirts with cuffs and dress pants, and you can’t go wrong with a two piece black suit. Remember, in dating models, showing up and looking great is half the battle! Call the experts at Model Quality Introductions today and tell us what you are seeking in the perfect partner.
