Dating 101 - What All Men Need to Know

There aren’t many things that can be more of a “buzz kill” to a happy couple than talk of a prenuptial agreement. However, prenups are a smart and popular choice for many men who meet their future wives with our without a millionaire matchmaker. To protect yourself just in case your marriage fails, follow the advice below to keep your relationship in tact in the meantime.

Choose the right time to initiate the consideration.
When it comes to success in relationships, timing is everything. While there is no perfect time to bring up a controversial issue to your partner, some “times” are better than others. You should let her know that you would like to talk about a prenup before you propose marriage. If you bring it up after you are already engaged, she may feel resentful or even regret having said yes to marriage. You should initiate the prenup conversation as soon as you are seriously considering marriage.  Bring it up when you are feeling confident about her investment in the relationship. Of course, find a time when your partner isn’t stressed, is in a good mood, and isn’t, to the best of your knowledge, mad at you for anything!

Act like a prenup’s no big deal and that you are just following pre-marital protocol.
As our good millionaire matchmakers will tell you, there are plenty of topics a couple should discuss before they decide to tie the knot. At our matchmaking agency, Model Quality Introductions, we would recommend that you talk about everything from having children and how many, and how often, and where you will live, and how you’ll manage your assets. So get your girlfriend of that mindset. Let her know that you feel discussing a prenup is as commonplace as going to premarital counseling or revising your estate plan. Bonus if you could bring it up within pre-marital counseling! Don’t let her think that there is anything about her that makes you want a prenup. If she thinks you’d want a prenup with any woman you met-whether through a matchmaking agency or off the street-she will be less likely to take it personally.

Find a way to show her that you will be generous throughout the marriage and afterward.
To a woman, the idea that you want to withhold anything from her is unromantic and far from ideal. Understand that she is marrying you, in part, because she wants to feel taken care of. If you want to make her feel better, display your generosity before or soon after you initiate the prenup conversation. Yes, you can buy her gifts. Perhaps, you can even take her to your estate planner so that she knows she would not be left empty-handed if you were to pass away first. These ideas along with your own will make this process much easier and protect both of you ever after.

You see her across the room at the bar. She’s the girl who has turned every head in the room. She has grown men losing their wits as they line up attempting to buy her next drink. She can’t go anywhere without someone telling her how stunning she is. She’s the dream girl in the database of a millionaire matchmaker. Every woman wants to be her. Every guy wants to date her.

But should you marry her?

There’s good news and bad news about relationships with extremely attractive women. If you are dating “a 10” who has inner beauty to match her gorgeous looks, proposing marriage may initially seem like a no-brainer. The truth is, marrying “the total package” has pros and cons. They are as follows:

Pros: 

Your wife will always be the hottest woman you know.
If she’s more than just a pretty face, you will probably always be very sexually attracted to her—maybe even less likely to stray.

You will gain instant respect.
Because your wife is also the hottest woman everyone else knows, people will automatically assume you are either rich, or really something special.

You will feel like you won the prize.
Ridiculously good looking woman have ridiculously high standards.  They know what they want and are used to men giving it to them. They are accustomed to upscale dating. They expect to be treated extremely well. If you go through all the hoops your wife requires, hopefully she will love and appreciate you like crazy.

Cons: 

Your wife will want diamonds and jewels—on the regular.
Being beautiful doesn’t come cheap, and neither does marrying her! Expect to foot the bill for everything from manicures and pedicures, to Botox, to designer handbags, to the penthouse suite at luxury hotels around on travel. If you do not provide this, a dozen men will line up behind you and will offer it. Because your “10” may have relied more on her looks than her wits, she may have taken on a low-paying, or p/t job that has given her more debt to deal with. As a millionaire matchmaker we can find her, but do you want to keep a woman like this for the long term?

This beauty is younger and may still love to party.
Most men who get into relationships with “10s” through our matchmaking agency are dating women at least ten to twenty years younger. It is often the case that these beautiful, young women are social butterflies. You may have sought out a matchmaking service because you were over the bar scene, but if you are married to a “10”, bar-hopping, night clubs, galas, and heavy socializing may reenter your lifestyle. Are you prepared for this.

Your wife will attract a lot of unwanted attention.
There will be countless men with their eyes on your wife at any given time. This could lead to insecurity, jealously, drama, and fights. Hopefully, your wife will have dated her share of men before she marries you, so she won’t feel like she’s missing out on anyone. Even so, it can be difficult to know that everywhere you go there are men trying to steal your woman away! When you sit down with our matchmaking agency we will discuss the pros and cons of 8’s, 9’s, and 10’s.

There are many benefits to dating women younger than us. Signing up with a high end dating agency, like Model Quality Introductions will provide you an easy way to date pre-screened, amazing ladies 10-20 years your junior. A beautiful young women is more fun than buying an exotic red sports car! But in the long run, the car is definitely cheaper! Here are three reasons why this millionaire matchmaker says you should date younger women:

 
Younger women are some of the most beautiful women.
While we can introduce you to attractive women of all ages, most of our male clients opt to meet younger women, because they have youth and vitality and are simply and naturally stunning! Younger women have that gorgeous glow. Life is still fun and exciting, an adventure to them. They tend to be in great shape, and are still interested in paying attention to all the fashion details for themselves and their man. If you want a woman who is naturally beautiful, polished, well-put together, and up on all the latest fashion trends and sexy styles, date a younger woman.

 
Younger women have less baggage.
All women (and men) have their issues, and no relationship is perfect. But with younger women, you will have a chance to date someone who has less issues and has likely not been jaded by a series of men who have wronged her. Your relationship can progress more quickly  because you will find her less guarded and easier to be with. When you date through a millionaire matchmaker, you will meet younger women who who have not been divorced, can travel without child constraints, and can keep up with you in and out of the bedroom. Not saying that mature women cannot, and some are even better, but this article is devoted to the reasons why men should date younger. Of course there is training involved but It’s refreshing not having to hear about their divorce or divorces, all about their dead beat ex-husband and problematic children. By dating younger she will have less responsibilities and fewer constraints and more time to focus on you and the relationship.

 
Having kids is much easier with a younger woman.
Of course, raising children is a lot easier when at least one of the parents is younger and has the energy to devote to the little ones, but child bearing is a lot easier for younger women too. Despite the advances with modern day technologies like in-vitro fertilization, it is much easier and less expensive for women to get pregnant and have healthy babies when they are under age thirty-five. Infertility, as well as difficult pregnancies and birth defects, really take a toll on couples over 40. If you want to go the safe easy route dating a younger woman might be the way to go.

There was definitely a time in your life when a committed relationship was the last thing on your mind. Whether you were establishing your career going for the first million, or just playing the field, you cringed at the idea of attending weddings no less being in one. At that stage you wouldn’t even think about hiring a matchmaking service! But somewhere along the way, you went from being scared of the “m” word to envisioning the type of woman you would like to spend the rest of your life with.

After two decades of running the nation’s most upscale matchmaking agency, we here at Model Quality Introductions have learned how to tell if a man is ready for commitment. When relationship-oriented men come to a matchmaking service like ours, they have certain things in common.

1. 1. You feel like you have lived alone long enough.
   If you’ve lived alone for at least a few years, chances are you are ready to settle down for the first time or again. You are more likely to share your physical space, emotions, goals, and dreams with a partner after you’ve had some time to enjoy life on your own.
2. 2. You are no longer struggling financially.
   When you reach a point in your life where you have disposable income you can enjoy hiring experts to assist you, from a personal trainer to a millionaire matchmaker to improve the quality of your life.  When you don’t have to worry about your basic needs financially, you can not only be generous with the women you date but invest in your future happiness and outsource your love life to a matchmaking agency.
3. 3. You are over dating exes, even casually.
   Men who aren’t serious about meeting the type of woman they could marry hold on to exes. They won’t let go of one vine until they have another. It’s comfortable and easy to go back but keeps you from moving forward. They think they might as well have fun in the meantime. There is no need for them to hire a matchmaking agency, because they have all of their exes on speed dial! Space filler, yes. Woman of their dreams, no. When you are really ready for commitment, you understand that you can’t move forward by looking backward. If you have let go of all your exes, commitment is surely in your near future! Our matchmaking service makes this dream a reality.

As a discerning single gentleman, you may have considered membership with several professional dating services. At Model Quality Introductions, the nation’s top dating service, we want to let you in on a little secret: Women should not pay. We aren’t just referring to the tab on your first dinner date, but we are taking the strong stance that women should never pay for membership at top dating services. To put it simply, if dating agencies charge women, they attract a clientele of older, less attractive, heavier-set women who come with a lot of baggage. Often, these women are extremely corporate ladies who’ve had successful careers and failed relationships. At this stage, men are not seeing them out in public. Despite the fact that these women do not appeal to men who see a Millionaire Matchmaker, they themselves are very fussy. They believe they have the right to be selective not only because they are paying a dating service but because they have accomplished so much professionally. Here at Model Quality Introductions, we absolutely do not take on this type of client, most men would date 8’s, 9’s and 10’s that do not pay, than 4’s, 5’s and 6’s that will. On the other hand, beautiful model type single women get asked out a dozen times a day. There’s no way a gorgeous single model type woman is going to spend hundreds or thousands of dollars to join even the top dating services to meet any guy. This is why none of our competitors can offer beautiful women like we can. To put it simply, when dating agencies charge women for membership, they just can’t attract quality women. How many 8’s, 9’s, and 10’s, ages 25-45 are going to spend their entire savings to date single gentleman. None! At Model Quality Introductions, we are the only male-owned matchmaking agency in the nation that gets it. For twenty years, we’ve recruited breathtaking women and added them to our registry for free. If you are a discerning gentleman, do not pay to join any dating agencies that charge women. Make an investment into Model Quality Introductions and meet the women who are worth your hard earned money and time. The difference is extraordinary!