VIP Dating: How to Maximize Looks

Single men interested in VIP dating must spend a fair amount of time on creating an attractive presentation for their dates. If you’d like to date a model or just meet a beautiful woman through top dating services, you must make sure that you maximize your appearance for success. To be attractive to women, you need not buy a whole new wardrobe, but focus on a few areas and improve what you already may have. The idea is to look like you, only better! You want to appear polished and well groomed. Here are four areas to focus on.

Your physique

Your body is a temple. If you date a model, you can bet that she will do everything in her power to stay fit and toned. It is important that you stay in shape as well; if you are pale, get a tan, whether it is natural or a spray tan. Watch your diet and make sure you get enough exercise. (This can be easier to do when dating models, because she will always help her partner with his health and fitness goals.) Join a health club and hit the gym hard with a personal trainer several times a week to maximize your results. Dating agencies do not like to take on clients who are overweight; so if you want a true VIP dating experience, work on your body, and take pride in looking the best that you can.

Your grooming habits

A polished appearance is crucial for VIP dating, and it is all about good grooming. Skin care is essential, and it doesn’t have to be complicated or time consuming. Use a dermatologist- recommended cleanser and moisturizing lotion that keeps your skin hydrated.  Shave regularly and use a clean blade and quality products. To prevent age spots and wrinkles, drink plenty of water and wear a sun screen. If your teeth are discolored, get them professionally whitened. If they are uneven, get veneers. If you wear glasses, make sure they are thin rimmed, designer frames. If you are serious about dating models, consider wearing contacts or getting Lasik surgery to improve your appearance as well.

Your hair

Hair speaks volumes, so make the most of what you have. If your hair is really short, grow it out. If it is long, give it a proper trim. Make sure you get a good cut from a professional stylist or barber before attempting VIP dating.  Changing your color is not something you should attempt on your own. Visit a salon and get expert advice on styles and the products you should use for the best results. Keep using the products you buy to keep your hair looking its best. If you are losing your hair, do something about it—whether you try hair restoration to get it back to what it used to be or just shave it off completely; look the best you can for VIP dating.

Your clothing

Toss your old favorites and put together three super strong outfits for VIP dating. Get some help from a personal shopper or a trusted friend to find out what looks and colors work best on you.  Do not buy anything that does not fit properly or can’t be tailored. Choose colors that go with your skin tone and styles that are contemporary. To guarantee that you feel confident and look cool, don’t wear your three outfits anywhere other than dates. This is important for executive matchmaking to work for you.

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Valentine’s Tips to Make Her Swoon

Valentine’s Day is when a guy’s affection and compatibility are put to the test. But don’t dread Valentine’s Day for its sappiness, see it as a challenge. This is your chance to surprise her, make her girlfriends jealous, and move beyond the usual halfhearted purchase of chocolates from CVS.

1)   Try  A Love Letter-Two out of five guys will text their loving message on Valentine’s Day and two in ten will send emails. That doesn’t even factor in Facebook and Twitter professions of love. As sweet as you think 140 characters can be, old school letters win every time.  Women want to feel special.  Giving a card designed for the masses or sending a text implies minimal effort.  More than 75% of women say that a heartfelt love letter trumps chocolate and flowers every time. You can get a blank card or take a photo of the two of you and write a message on the back. It doesn’t have to be long, and can even be a quote from a song you both like. In this electronic world we live in, handwriting still holds a certain intimacy.

2)   Avoid Teddy Bears and Balloons– Those things are great if you are in high school. Women’s polls consistently show that those gifts rank among the worst. I’m not suggesting you run to the nearest jeweler.  In fact, depending on where you are in the relationship, extravagant gifts can seem overwhelming. If you’ve just started dating, a big gift can imply more depth to the relationship than there is. Instead, find a simple gift that shows you’ve been listening to her. Maybe buy a DVD she’s wanted, a book by an author she’s mentioned, or even something that she really needs. Thoughtfulness is a huge turn on for women.

3)    Make Plans– More than 50% of men make no V-day plans in advance.  This can be a problem since most women expect guys to map out the evening.  To avoid conflict in a relationship or potential relationship, just make a plan. To women, making plans is a sign of commitment. Putting forethought into your time together suggests you might see a future together. It may sound like a leap, but if you want to see the woman again don’t take this lightly.

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What Makes a Gold Digger Truly a Gold Digger?

Nobody likes to talk about a topic as delicate as love in the crass terms of finance, but the fact is that few things will have more of an impact on your lifestyle & happiness as whom you choose to marry. Should the partnership fail, men stand to lose half of their assets.  Meeting with successful men daily, I often surprisingly get asked how much money is enough to attract a worthwhile partner.  Men know women by nature are monogamous and want someone that will truly love them for the long haul. However, they also want someone who will be a good provider.  So, how do you separate out women only looking for financial betterment?  After all, women don’t come to me because they want to meet starving artists.
A gold digger is a woman that brings nothing to the table other than her looks, and expects the world in return. She feels that any man is lucky to be in her presence, regardless of his accomplishments, because she has won the genetic lottery. She will not give the time of day to someone that does not lavishly spend money on her prior to intimacy or a commitment. Some poor men lack self respect and may be attracted to her absurd entitlement issues just to be in the presence of a beautiful woman. Some men inherit wealth and may feel that the only way to date 9’s and 10’s is to buy their love. I strongly believe the old adage that “a fool and his money are soon parted”.  I have sat down with many men whose divorces have made the public eye. They were targets for these gold diggers that rush to the alter, after a whirlwind sexual relationship that the guy had never experienced before. Let’s take Brad Pitt as an example.  Why would the most handsome man on the planet adopt refugee children with a woman who isn’t even his wife.  If it doesn’t work out, he will pay child support for 18 years on a slew of kids which are not even his. A fool and his money… I am all about an exchange of powers between two consenting adults. Just don’t marry a gold digger and bring kids into the equation. If you are not sure if she is a gold digger, introduce her to a sweet girl and ask the other girl her opinion.  Girls can tell this. If she’s only in it for the money, the other girl will tell you the truth. Another litmus test is what I call ‘the rule of three’. If after you have done three nice things in a row for a girl and she does not reciprocate in any way whatsoever, you probably have a gold digger. Most sweet girls would have baked you cookies,  bought you a card, or shown some appreciation for your gifts, dinners, etc. After 16 years in the executive matchmaking business, I can spot a materialistic girl before the door even closes behind her. Recognize the telltale signs- the conversations are all about her, her needs, and her problems. This should be a red flag and you should turn and walk away.

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