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How much baggage do you carry with you into your relationships? Some of us are aware of the baggage we bare, while others are clueless of what baggage even is? Baggage can be defined as the pain and negative experiences you are carrying around from your past relationship(s), and children/grandchildren still under your roof.

People who are unable to forgive the past are doomed to get dumped again. Superimposing old experiences into new relationships is a method of self sabotage. One needs to be able to see each matchmaking relationship as independent from the next. Because you were cheated on, verbally or physically abused, left for another woman/man, stuck footing the bills for the kids, or other hurtful acts doesn’t mean the next person in your life will do the same.

When a new encounter triggers past emotions, you need to dig deep. Are these the same issues with each passing relationship? Have you been blaming every single relationship on your new relationship? Do you find yourself asking, where are all the normal people? Or why am I still single? Could it possibly be, gasp! You who is causing these problems? If you have unresolved hurt or anger, one step to unload your baggage is to acknowledge your role. This is the advice of your millionaire matchmaking consultant.

Take an inventory of past relationships, identify the patterns, accept your role, own your shortcomings, and remember each partner is different from the past.

It takes a lot of courage to accept responsibility in failed relationships, but it must be done in order to move on and have a healthy relationships. Once you identify the pattern, you will come to a resolution. And if you discover you had no responsibility in the failed relationship because your past partner was on another planet, that’s a way of letting go as well and preparing to trust again! Release the fear and pain. Forgive the past. Move forward.
Your high end matchmaker will take the time to get to know you and your needs, and she will not steer you in the wrong direction. Once you let go of the past, your millionaire matchmaker can help you move forward.
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Sincerely,
Craig Donaldson
President
Model Quality Introductions
www.ModelQualityIntroductions.com
president@modelqualityintroductions.com

When you’re looking to get back into the dating scene, getting over your ex is the first step! You might think you’re fully over them but it’s not always the case. With these tips you can get over your ex and move on, get back to the world, and find the right match for you.

• Don’t call your ex for 60 days: Not talking to your ex will help you clear your head and think rationally about your next step. Block texting and emails too.
• Don’t drink: Drinking can lead to DUI’s dialing under the influence, and the only thing worse than talking to your ex in those first 60 days is talking to them when you aren’t 100% yourself
• Ask a friend to help: Asking friends to go out with you will help keep you away from feeling lonely.
• Don’t Second Guess: Sometimes we think that the person we lost really is the one we’re meant to be with. In cases like this, start dating slowly and really think about your situation. Decide if you really believe that they are the one, or if you’re simply feeling lonely.
• Make a list: When it comes down to it, sometimes we want to go back to the person. Make a list of things you like and things you don’t in a partner and even about your last partner. If the cons outweigh the pros, you were probably right in ending the relationship.

After you’ve gotten past the heartache of the brake up, it’s time to get back out there. Finding the right match for you can be a long and tedious process, but with help from Model Quality Introductions, will not have to deal with the difficulties of dating.

Entering into a new relationship when you feel you’re ready, means learning from past mistakes with exes. Be honest so that your new relationship can grow instead of being hindered by the baggage from your past.

Model Quality Introductions millionaire matchmakers will help you to pin point exactly what you’re looking for, and what you’re not looking for, by talking about your past relationships, and deciding what’s best for your future.

For over two decades Model Quality Introductions has been the ultimate search engine for the discriminating man- one stunning introduction after another. Discover why.

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Sincerely,
Craig Donaldson
President
Model Quality Introductions
www.ModelQualityIntroductions.com
president@modelqualityintroductions.com
310.860.9300

When it comes to alcoholic beverages, how much is OK to drink on a date?

Of course you want to have a nice time on your date, so loosening up with a nice glass of wine can certainly help! The question is, when does it stop helping, and start hurting your date?

Factors to consider when figuring out how much to drink on a date:

• Do you follow his lead?
• Do you not drink at all?
• Do you limit yourself to 1 drink or 2 drinks?
• Does it depend on where you go on your date?
• Whether you are having a meal?
• Whether or not he orders a 2nd or 3rd drink.
• How long does the date last?

These are all great questions, and one of the reasons it makes it so hard to figure out what the correct answer is.

My advice on first date drinking

Most people can easily have 2 drinks and still have their full wits about them. Pour that 3rd drink however and inhibitions and wit start to go. So stop at 2 drinks, regardless of what you are doing on your date, how much you are eating, or how long your date lasts, just call it quits.

Some people say, “But we are eating a big meal, I can tolerate more” or “we are watching a baseball game or other sporting event for several hours, a drink an hour will be fine.” Why risk it? Do you really want to reveal this much on a first date? Too much alcohol ends up providing too much information to your date.

So before you go on that next first date, agree to limit yourself and stick to it.

If you are feeling nervous about your date, try some other forms of relaxation. You might go for a nice run to clear your mind, or stop by your local yoga studio for an hour of peace and quiet. Take a few deep breaths, and know that there is never a second chance to make a first impression.

Sincerely,
Craig Donaldson
President
Model Quality Introductions
www.ModelQualityIntroductions.com
president@modelqualityintroductions.com
310.860.9300