As I coach many men about dating and relationships in their quest to find the right woman, I thought I would divulge a few things to help my female clients learn what men really want.  Its been said before but it’s worth repeating that men are the simpler of the two sexes. There are certain things that will make any man take notice of a woman and want to get to know her better.  Here are the top three: 1)  A Man Wants a Woman who is Happy, Playful, and Fun.  Men like to be active and play. No secret here. Men bond by doing shared activities and experience connection with others through action.  Most women, however, experience connection through talking.  Unfortunately, you cannot talk your way into a man’s heart. It will never be your wonderful command of the English language that will make him attracted to you. It will be the experiences you create with him.  For example, don’t talk about your problems at work or issues with your family in the early stages of dating.  Down the road, there will be time for more serious discussions.  In the beginning,  when a man has fun and feels that spark for you he will want to spend more time getting to know you. 2)  A Man Wants Chemistry (Attraction and Passion) Chemistry is the one “intangible” we cannot control in the matchmaking business. Men aren’t as scared of relationships as most women think.  However, they are scared of being in a relationship with a woman where there is no passion or attraction.  Yes, men are visual creatures and the chemistry either is there or it isn’t. 3)  A Man Wants a Woman who Inspires and Respects Him– When a man loves a woman, he wants to be a better man for her and it gives purpose to all his hard work.  Men still want to go out and slay the dragon to win a woman’s respect, love, and admiration at the end of the day. A woman who has the maturity to not blame or criticize a man will be attractive to him.  How a woman handles her emotions is one of the most important things a man looks for when he’s deciding if he should date her exclusively.  High drama with emotions out of control is a red flag for all men.  A woman who can present her feelings in a calm non-dramatic way will go a long way toward convincing a man that she could potentially be a long-term partner for him.

Disclaimer: A man is not a retirement package. Money can be lost just as easily as it can be earned, and half of all marriages end in divorce over finances. Knowing how to capture  a millionaires attention is certainly a valuable tool to possess. If all goes well, marrying a millionaire can lead you to financial freedom, private schools for kids, nannies, vacations, luxury cars, and a safe community to live in together. Are you wondering if there is a magic formula to walking down the aisle with the single millionaire of your choice? There is, and if you follow the following three steps below, he can be yours! Find your millionaire by promoting your youth and beauty. Knowing how to marry a millionaire will be a lot easier if you are youthful and attractive. Women should make the most of their beauty while they are still young to attract single rich men.  It may not seem fair, but dating wealthy men is much simpler for women in their twenties and early thirties.  In these years, women have a lot of sex appeal to affluent single men from the twenties through sixties. If you are young, learning how to marry a millionaire could be as easy as contacting a Millionaire matchmaker and asking for consideration in the agency’s database of men. There are sure to be plenty of upscale single men who will naturally find you sexy, but learning how to dress the part is crucial. To maximize your beauty, you should show off some skin in form-fitting clothing without overdoing it. As all the fashion magazines suggest, if you wear a super-short mini skirt, you shouldn’t reveal too much cleavage. If you wear bright red lipstick, you should not have dramatic black eyeliner. In other words, pick one feature to play up and one body part to draw attention to. The idea is to keep it classy with hints of sexuality. If you are more mature, do not despair. Many wealthy men dating in both the cities and suburbs are attracted to women of all ages who maintain their good looks and have a pleasant personality. If you dress sexy but age appropriate and have a warm easy-going personality, you’ll be a desirable option for more than enough single rich men. No matter what your age, if you have a young-at-heart care-free attitude, single millionaires will find you attractive. Capture your millionaire by respecting his time and having great times together One thing is for sure: Single rich men lead very busy lives.  They have companies to run, business trips to attend, and large networks of friends, contacts, and colleagues to stay in touch with. In addition, they have the time and means to take up hobbies, be involved in charities, travel for pleasure, and maintain multiple homes around the globe.  With a busy professional and social calendar, the last thing they want is to waste time with a woman that doesn’t respect their time. With millionaire dating, it needs to be more about him—not you. No, you don’t want to bend over backwards to accommodate his schedule if it is going to hurt you, but you do want to show him that you value his time and can be flexible with yours.  Just as importantly, make sure the time you spend together is generally fun, lighthearted, and drama-free. If you become experienced in dating wealthy men, you will see that they have enough stress in their lives already. Make your relationship a safe haven that will protect him from additional stresses and you’ll be that much closer in your quest to discovering how to marry a millionaire. Keep your millionaire by adding irreplaceable value to his life Contrary to popular belief, single rich men are not afraid to commit. They are afraid of commitment to the wrong woman! If you want a man to make the ultimate commitment by taking your hand in marriage, you must make him feel you are better than any other female option he has. In a nutshell, figuring out how to marry a millionaire is figuring out how to be irreplaceable.  Some quick tips: Always be happy even if you are not. Smile. Be sexier than anyone else he might date. Flirt with him. Hold hands and touch. Be romantic. Make him feel like a king. With beauty, great times, and irreplaceable value, you’ll be on your way to marrying a millionaire and living happily ever after. Best Regards, Craig Donaldson President Model Quality Introductions www.ModelQualityIntroductions.com president@modelqualityintroductions.com 310.860.9300

In a day and age with more dating options than ever, getting a man to commit to a serious, monogamous, long-term relationship can be quite the challenge. Most women have no problem attracting men, but finding those affluent single men who’ll stick around for the happily-ever-after is not as easy as one might think. Can you relate? If you understand and apply the following three secret tips to exclusive dating with affluent single men, you may just change your luck in the romance department! Identify the signs of affluent single men who are ready for Exclusive dating They are certain types of upscale single men who might be fun for casual dating but do not make ideal candidates for a serious relationship. If exclusive dating is what you truly desire, you’ll have to avoid involvement with men who are emotionally unavailable, still have relationships with exes, and have issues with addictions or commitment. Other single men who aren’t ready for exclusive relationships may include those who are not settled in terms of their careers or their finances. Alternately, you might meet the single executive who is too preoccupied with work. Although you may be attracted to many things about the men that fall into these categories, do not date them with the hope that they will change. It will be a waste of your time when you find out that they won’t. Ultimately, you will learn that it is best to date single rich men who contact an agency like Model Quality Introductions because they are at the stage in life when they are ready to settle down.  Through us, you will meet men who are generous with their time, money, and emotions. Maintain a little bit of mystery It is not wise to play hard to get especially with single rich men who are likely to date beautiful women all the time and have many options to choose from. However, it is a good idea to actually be a little hard to get, to appeal to such upscale single men as they like a challenge. To be a challenge you can’t give up everything too soon. Whether you share stories about your past relationships or disclose that your personal mission is to marry a millionaire, you will be giving him too much information. You should not tell a man everything about yourself upfront, because men like mysterious women.  It is best to leave some things to his imagination, especially when it comes to intimacy. There is something to be said for making a man wait. If you give him something to look forward to, and appeal to him on an emotional level, he will be more likely to consider you for long-term exclusive dating. Give affluent single men incentive to commit to A lot of women make the mistake of initiating “the talk” when they decide they want exclusive dating with a single millionaire they are dating. Unfortunately, you can’t verbally convince a man that he should commit to you, let alone a millionaire who can have who he wants. If you make him feel pressured, commitment will be the last thing on his mind. When you want a man all to yourself, it is best to follow the old adage that says actions speak louder than words.  Your goal is to show him why he should commit by making him see that you are an amazing woman who adds value to his life. This is especially important when it comes to dating wealthy men who have tons of options in their love lives. You have to show a man that you have a life outside him-which may even include friendships with other men-to give him an incentive to fight for you. It doesn’t hurt to give him a visual reminder every now and then by getting all dressed up when you go out so that you’ll receive admiring glances from other men. This will remind him that there other wealthy singles who’d love to date a woman like you. By being a great girlfriend who understands him, listens to him, and cares for him unconditionally, he’ll see that you add great value to his life. If you can make a man feel truly supported and loved, he’ll be thrilled to commit. He might even think that the idea was his in the first place! Best Regards, Craig Donaldson President Model Quality Introductions www.ModelQualityIntroductions.com president@modelqualityintroductions.com 310.860.9300

If you have your heart set on dating wealthy men, know that finding a good guy who also happens to be a millionaire is not as difficult as you think understand the mindset of single millionaires. While single millionaires are different in many ways, they all have one thing in common. Besides the riches they’ve made; they like to date beautiful women. If they tell you they don’t, they are lying! Sure, they are looking for other qualities as well, but most upscale single men really do have an interest in dating models or women who look like one. Don’t worry, you don’t have to be a supermodel to attract a single millionaire, but you will to have a follow a few rules to catch his eye. Before you run out to buy a whole new wardrobe of clothes and accessories, consider that one of the best things you can wear is a smile! A warm, genuine smile is a sign of happiness, health, and wellness; it is impossible for any man to resist! Rule # 1: A single millionaire likes feminine women. Single rich men are often described as alpha males, as they have power and respect in their circles. They often have busy agendas packed with meetings, business trips, social engagements, and fun activities. They are the men who lead full lives, getting things done in the world by being dominant and aggressive leaders. In other words, they epitomize the typical definition of “manly”. In turn, a single millionaire will like women who act like ladies and are not too masculine in nature. Since men are such visual creatures, portraying the image of a beautiful feminine woman starts with clothing. After all, it is hard to appear masculine in a beautiful long flowing skirt. To attract upscale single men, you should wear feminine clothing such as skirts and dresses made of materials like lace or silk. You can wear cardigans in soft pastels or bold girly colors such as pinks, reds, and purples too. Don’t be afraid of embracing frilly and romantic fashions. In order to have a feminine appearance, you must definitely develop an understanding of which colors go together and which clash with your appearance. Feminine women have an innate talent for choosing beautiful clothing. Rule # 2: A single millionaire likes a sexy woman. To increase your chances of capturing the attention of affluent single men, you’ve got to get in touch with your sexy side. Every woman has one, whether she wears clothing that just hints at sexuality or emulates the ultimate sex kitten! Looking sexy is not necessarily about wearing skin tight clothing or having overflowing cleavage, but about being confident in whatever you wear. However, you should never underestimate the power of skinny jeans or a push-up bra. Wear them regularly to turn the heads of wealthy singles. Speaking of heads, if yours doesn’t house long, thick, locks, consider getting hair extensions, because single rich men love long hair. Make sure your clothes are flattering for your body type and that you aren’t breaking any obvious fashion no-nos. If your sleeves are too long or your waist is not showing, you should definitely get yourself to a tailor and find a cool belt that will highlight your waist. You want pieces that are form-fitting and show off your figure. (Bonus points in the sexy department if you have an hour glass shape!) If you have great legs, wear a mini skirt; if you have amazingly sculpted shoulders, wear a halter top. The key to being sexy is to maximize your assets and minimize your flaws so that you always feel sexy. When you feel sexy, you look sexy. When you look sexy, upscale single men will notice. Best Regards, Craig Donaldson President Model Quality Introductions www.ModelQualityIntroductions.com president@modelqualityintroductions.com 310.860.9300

Happy 2011! If you are determined to make your relationship dreams a reality this year, you need to get in front of your target audience. This week, I’m going to give women some advice on an often overlooked factor.  For over 16 years, I’ve set myself apart as the Male Millionaire Matchmaker by recruiting beautiful women at large for the gentlemen at my agency. Men are all visual, especially successful wealthy ones. Ladies, if you were applying for a new job, you wouldn’t show up in a mini-skirt with your hair in a ponytail and expect to be hired, right? Even if you were the most qualified, well-educated, and intelligent person, you certainly wouldn’t be hired. When it comes to succeeding in relationships, the same principles apply. Before you ever get a chance at meeting amazing men, you have to present yourself in a way that will make a man notice you. As I review applications, I form a first impression quickly. It may or may not be accurate, but that is all I have to go on other than your brief description. Since I am keenly aware of what my male clientele are seeking, a poor photograph or none at all will surely eliminate you. Professional photographs are certainly not necessary. I always encourage submitting a great full body shot that displays your proportions in a flattering way. If you submit a face photo, you want to look happy and approachable. Smile, and try to accomplish a look of the sexy girl next door. Another pitfall to avoid is the “work” look. Remember, you are trying to attract the opposite sex. Having your hair pulled back, glasses on, and sitting at your computer is not your most flattering look. Of course you have to pay your rent, but this will not get you a call for a consultation in any one of my matchmaking offices. I always advise women to have their hair down and makeup tastefully done, regardless of what outfit you have on. Men like women who embrace their femininity. So, in a nutshell before you can get a chance at meeting the man of your dreams who loves your dog, takes amazing vacations, treats you like a princess, and loves all your silly quirks, you have to get his attention. Unless you like compromising your safety and meeting strangers on-line, take the time to take a few good photos. It could change your life forever.